Are you sure that's your wife you caught? Looks like my girl-Identically! The guy looks just like a couple of her clients, Hmmm, Doug or Lief? They are both builders/remodelers and you can tell that the house was under construction because of the surface protection on the dressers and end table! Perhaps the "cleaning girl"! could you post the full video??? This looks like an ongoing affair the way the video is. I would love to rule out my girl!