Love & Sex Answers: http://bit.ly/DanAndJenn -- Question: me and my girlfriend are happy and in love and everything is going great. we have sex almost everyday. it's wonderful! but she doesn't like to change up the position. she knows that i like when she's on top because we talk about it and when we "talk dirty" via phone/text she always says she's going to get on top of me, but when we get in bed, it seems like she doesn't want to. do you think she wants me to throw her around and put her on top of me and stuff? i've thought about trying that, but i don't want to throw her into a situation she doesn't want to be in.